Reclaiming the Mother Within:
How to Nurture, Affirm, and Stand for
Yourself as Your Fiercest Ally
Now, more than ever, the world needs women who are awake, resourced, and courageously speaking their truth.
We need women who prioritize themselves.
Women who are filled up with self-nurturing and self-care so that they can give to their loved ones, their community, and the world from a place of abundance.
Reclaiming the Mother Within is an invitation to a new way of seeing, thinking, and being.
A NEW WAY OF LIVING THAT IS GROUNDED IN THE WISDOM THAT:
Nurturing you is a gift to yourself, and to everyone you care about and love.
Prioritizing your needs and wants fills you up, and delights those who truly love you.
Affirming yourself with self-compassion and self-forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your children as well as the women in your life. You are modeling and living what is possible for them.
Putting yourself last teaches others to do the same — creating endless relationship disappointments and a painful legacy of neglect for your daughters or other women in your life.
Your worthiness is not determined by what another person does (or doesn't do), by outer circumstances, or whether or not you are in an intimate partner relationship.
Reclaiming the Mother Within is an invitation to see the truth that prioritizing other people over taking care of yourself is a recipe for pain, anger, loneliness, and resentment.
It's Time to Reclaim the Mother Within
In this intimate live experiential 9-week online program you will:
Discover what it means to nurture yourself, even if you didn't receive adequate nurturing in your childhood.
Identify how the "less-than-nurturing" mothering you experienced in the past impacts you today and learn how to begin the healing process.
Begin trusting in your ability to nurture and affirm yourself.
Know what it means to stand for yourself as your fiercest ally and learn beginning tools for protecting yourself.
Forgive yourself for not standing up for yourself in the past.
Have a roadmap for repairing the wounds of the past and reparenting yourself in the present.
Where Do I Begin?
When it comes to nurturing and prioritizing yourself, you may have no idea where to begin.
You may believe that nurturing yourself is self-indulgent or selfish.
You may wonder how you can possibly nurture yourself when you didn't get the nurturing you needed as a child and you're still carrying old wounds and hurts.
You may wonder, "How can I reparent myself, when I'm parenting my own children?"
Maybe you've given up because you don't believe you have time to care for yourself or you don't think you're worth it.
WHAT IF YOU COULD CHANGE ALL THAT?
You Can Learn How to Nurture Yourself
What if you knew exactly what nurturing yourself looks like, and it was an automatic, daily habit?
Maybe you've tried to create a habit of self-nurturing in the past but it didn't last, and now you've lost trust in yourself.
And even if you weren't nurtured or affirmed by your biological or adoptive mother, it doesn't mean you're a lost cause.
It is never too late to begin nurturing you.
You can begin giving yourself the care you didn't receive right now, and you can create sustainable habits and strategies to build trust in your ability to care for you.
Imagine how your life would be different if you were able to embrace the truth that taking care of you is the kindest, most loving thing you can do for yourself, your loved ones, and the world?
What if you prioritized yourself as an act of self-love, self-affirmation, and self-empowerment?
Nurturing, affirming, and standing for yourself as your fiercest ally is possible.
When you have tools and strategies for healing the less-than-nurturing parenting you received you will discover exactly what you need in the present to heal the wounds from the past.
When you are resourced with your own unique form of self-care, nurturing, and protection, you will:
Know how to go inside to identify your needs and wants first in every situation. You won't sell yourself short by guessing at what is "acceptable" or what someone else will give you before you even gets started.
Know that you are happier, more peaceful, and more relationship-ready when you are filled up with your own self-care and nurturing.
Avoid wasting time worrying about what other people think or how they will react to you taking care of — and prioritizing — yourself.
Experience more self-acceptance, self-forgiveness, and more trust in your ability to care for and protect yourself.
You will effortlessly feel more loved, and cherished because you treat yourself as a beloved — worthy of your attention and care.
Reclaiming the Mother Within begins with going inside to discover what you needed then, what you need now, and having the tools and strategies for nurturing, affirming, and standing for yourself as your fiercest ally.
About Your Guide
Hi, I’m Victoria Priya (formerly Palmer) and I’m so glad you’re here!
For more than three decades, I have worked with courageous women as they have faced, healed, and overcome relational traumas caused by less-than-nurturing experiences in childhood, or in their most intimate adult relationships. I've also faced and healed a few of my own.
I've led more than 37 family of origin trauma intensives and Reclaiming the Mother programs over the past 14 years. The information, concepts, and experiential processes included in the Reclaiming the Mother Within experience are deeply influenced by my extensive training with Pia Mellody who pioneered the family of origin trauma model used at The Meadows treatment center (Survivors I & II).
I am the founder of the Radiant Threefold Path | Return+Reclaim+Receive, author of Personal Boundaries for Dummies (Spring 2024), the #1 best-selling book Moving Beyond Betrayal, host of the Radiant Threefold Path Podcast and Beyond Bitchy: Mastering the Art of Boundaries podcast (2018-2021).
I would love to support you on a journey from depletion to abundance, from over-giving to receiving. An inner journey of discovering your inherent worthiness, knowing that you are loved and cherished from the inside out.
What's Included
9 Live Exploration & Discovery Sessions
Each Live Weekly Session will consist of a combination of teaching and instruction by Victoria, experiential prompts to facilitate your inner discovery and exploration, as well as laser (brief) coaching and Q&A.
essions are 90 minutes each and will be held via Zoom.
Reclaiming the Mother Within Journal
The course includes weekly journals to record your work from the experiential exercises, capture your reflections, identify areas for further exploration, and jot down key takeaways.
Questions for Victoria
This is deep work, and you may have many questions about the material and the experiential exercises as we move through the 8 weeks. For any questions that come up in between our live sessions, you can submit them in the Questions for Victoria section in the member site where she will answer them personally.
Private Online Community (Not on Facebook)
The course includes a private online community exclusively for Reclaiming the Mother Within participants. In our community space you can connect with other course participants in between weekly sessions for support, inspiration, and accountability, and ask questions of Victoria and the community.
4 Questions for Knowing You
Workbook to compliment your Reclaiming the Mother Within journey. You will receive this eWorkbook as soon as you enroll and you are strongly encouraged to complete it before we get started on March 3.
BONUSES
Initiation Celebration & LIVE Q&A
Our final session will be a celebration of you—for your courage and dedication to engage in this deep transformative work. The session will include a LIVE Q&A with Victoria.
“Self-Care Toolbox” Sessions
In these bonus sessions, members of Victoria's membership community for women (Radiant Threefold Path Initiates Circle) share their top tools for self-care and self-nurturing.
Session 1
Discovering Your Mother Constellation: The Earthly, Inner, and Archetypal Mother
In Session 1, you will discover your personal meaning of the word “mother,” so that you can more deeply connect to the power this word holds for you.
“Mother” is most often associated with the biological or adoptive mother, but there is also an archetypal (symbolic) mother, and an inner mother that nurtures, affirms, and sets limits on our own behavior, as well as on the behaviors we will (or won’t) accept from others.
Session 2
Exploring the “Good Enough” Mother
In Session 2, you will explore the concept of the “Good Enough” Mother as it applies to your real, authentic childhood experience of Mother, and your ability to nurture, affirm, and stand for yourself today as an adult woman.
You will be supported to connect with your honest truth about the less-than-nurturing mothering you received, as well as your power to reparent yourself in the present.
You will discover what "good enough" means to you and explore issues of perfectionism and acceptance so that you can begin to identify the ways in which you need nurturing and reparenting.
Session 3
Speaking Your Truth: Exploring the Mother Wound — Past & Present
In Session 3, you will explore some of the past wounding events you experienced with your mother.
You will discover how these events impacted you then and how they impact you now, so that you can experience more self-compassion and self-forgiveness.
Session 4
Processing Carried Feelings: Releasing Toxic Emotions
In Session 4 you will be introduced to the concept of carried feelings and the lasting negative impact they have on our lives when they are unseen or unprocessed.
You will identify emotions that were unintentionally passed down to you from your caregivers. You will be guided through a gentle process of releasing carried feelings so that you can feel lighter and unburdened.
Session 5
Rewriting the Mother Story: Learning to Reparent as the Good Enough Mother
In Session 5, you will take what you have learned in the first four sessions to “rewrite” the less-than-nurturing stories of how you were mothered in the past.
You will identify what your younger self needed so that you can not only repair the wounds of the past, but also discover a roadmap for reparenting yourself in the present.
Session 6
Embracing the Fierce Mother: Stand for Yourself as Your Fiercest Ally
In Session 6, you will explore the Fierce Mother archetype and recognize her in yourself.
Session 7
Reconnecting With and Reparenting the Inner Child
In Session 6 you will identify specific key incidents from your childhood that were less than nurturing—events you would have liked to experience differently.
You will then be guided through a process of reconnecting with your child self so that she can receive the parenting she deserved.
Session 8
Welcoming the Mother Within: Charting Your Reparenting Map
In Session 7, you will explore and discover what it means to connect to the Mother within so that you can easily access the part of you who has the skills and tools for inner reparenting — especially nurturing, affirming, and setting limits.
Session 9
Integrating the Mother Within: Trust & Commitment
In Session 8, you will integrate all that you have learned in the prior sessions and make specific commitments to yourself, so that you can begin building trust in your ability to prioritize self-care, nurturing, and reparenting yourself.
You will create a sustainable, actionable roadmap for supporting your ongoing self-nurturing and reparenting journey.
Your journey starts here
What's Included
9 LIVE Weekly Exploration & Discovery Sessions
Reclaiming the Mother Within Journal
Private Online Community (not on Facebook!)
Downloadable eWorkbooks & Resources
Permanent Access to Course Replays
BONUS Initiation Celebration & LIVE Q&A
BONUS "Self-Care Toolbox" Sessions
SPECIAL BONUS (til February 28): Return to You Experiential Immersion
Reclaiming the Mother Within is limited to 10 participants.
To take the next step, click Schedule a Conversation with Victoria below.
Schedule a conversation with Victoria
Pay in Full (Save $380)
$2500
32-monthly payments
$1000
Frequently Asked Questions
What Women Are Saying:
“Now I know that all of this shame and brokenness I felt is not about me.”
“I feel like a huge weight has been lifted. I feel peace.”
“I now know that I am worth my own time and energy.”
“This process has changed my life.”
Your journey starts here
What's Included
9 LIVE Weekly Exploration & Discovery Sessions
Reclaiming the Mother Within Journal
Private Online Community (not on Facebook!)
Downloadable eWorkbooks & Resources
Permanent Access to Course Replays
BONUS Initiation Celebration & LIVE Q&A
BONUS "Self-Care Toolbox" Sessions
SPECIAL BONUS (til February 28): Return to You Experiential Immersion
Schedule a conversation with Victoria
Pay in Full (Save $380)
$2500
2-monthly payments
$1000
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